It's really hard to admit one mistake, and can you imagine how hard it is to admit thousounds of it?
Why do people make mistakes, when they already know that is wrong? Why they want to repeat a mistake when they already been punished?
Pulling effect it's how I describe it, in addition of 'one door open and the previous one closed'. When you first open the 'mistake's door' it will usually remain open for you, and it's serves as two purposes. The first and most important reason is for you to return back and close it, which second reason to allow you being confident to find another door which lead to another mistake, and then it will close. Once you open the second door, there will be a pressure that keeping your open more door and lead to more mistakes. This will pull your deep into the mistakes and it's really hard for you to revert to the right path. It's not impossible, but it's definitely Hard!
Many reason can make you open the first door in the first place. If we go around the table, I believe everyone can come up with their own huge list. But what I'm going to mention is about your focus, your aim and your objective. Focus and objectives can be your source of motivation if it's been view from a different plane. When we loss it, we tend to stray away from the main reason or in other word we lost our direction. You will be anywhere between your starting point and your aim when you loss your objective. You will start doing anything unnecessary, wasting your time doing something that definitely wrong. You may be saying 'Hey, I'm just being my self. If it wrong, who cares?' Yes, you are right, it's not wrong to be your self, but I know that you know that it's wrong, and look around there are so many people care about you, no matter how far or close they are to you.
Believe me, it's killing you when you fall deep inside the unknowing room lead by many unknowing doors. You may feel happy for this instance, but in the long run, you will feel the pain.
Why do people make mistakes, when they already know that is wrong? Why they want to repeat a mistake when they already been punished?
Pulling effect it's how I describe it, in addition of 'one door open and the previous one closed'. When you first open the 'mistake's door' it will usually remain open for you, and it's serves as two purposes. The first and most important reason is for you to return back and close it, which second reason to allow you being confident to find another door which lead to another mistake, and then it will close. Once you open the second door, there will be a pressure that keeping your open more door and lead to more mistakes. This will pull your deep into the mistakes and it's really hard for you to revert to the right path. It's not impossible, but it's definitely Hard!
Many reason can make you open the first door in the first place. If we go around the table, I believe everyone can come up with their own huge list. But what I'm going to mention is about your focus, your aim and your objective. Focus and objectives can be your source of motivation if it's been view from a different plane. When we loss it, we tend to stray away from the main reason or in other word we lost our direction. You will be anywhere between your starting point and your aim when you loss your objective. You will start doing anything unnecessary, wasting your time doing something that definitely wrong. You may be saying 'Hey, I'm just being my self. If it wrong, who cares?' Yes, you are right, it's not wrong to be your self, but I know that you know that it's wrong, and look around there are so many people care about you, no matter how far or close they are to you.
Believe me, it's killing you when you fall deep inside the unknowing room lead by many unknowing doors. You may feel happy for this instance, but in the long run, you will feel the pain.
